It's a lie if you live and never face hurdles. At times you'll feel so down that you feel useless and at lost of what to do next. You can choose either one:
-drown in self pity and think of how well it could be if only...
-or you can choose to look at it from a different angle and move on,
Choose to become a survivor, not a victim.
Some people will ask, "Are you ok?" 'Are you sad?'
Don't answer straight away. Look into your heart and think. Are you really ok? Aren't you sad at all?
It's a lie if there's no hint of sadness. Of course it's a bit upsetting if not much.
But will you wallow in sadness and stay put?
There's no point of being sad, really. For whatever reason? It has happened and there's no use of keep on being sad. You still have to live. There's still tomorrow to look forward to.
People say 'berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu memikul'. True. But He knows you can go through this, that's why it happens to you. Different people face different challanges, but it's how you react to it is important.
For now, take one step at a time. There's no point in rushing.
If you don't know who you want to let it all out to, He will always be there to listen.
24/7, not even a fraction of second to be missed.